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Why Sleep Shortcuts Fail | Foundations for Better Baby Sleep | Baby Settler
Why Sleep Shortcuts Fail—and What Actually Works for Type-A Moms I’m going to be honest with you: I’m a Type-A mom. I don’t function well on little sleep. In fact, the weeks leading up to the birth of each of my four babies, I had real anxiety—not about labor or...
How to Protect Your Milk Supply as Baby Sleeps Longer | Baby Settler
The Ultimate Guide to Protecting Your Milk Supply as Your Baby Sleeps Longer Stretches When your baby finally starts sleeping through the night, it can feel like a dream come true. But for breastfeeding moms, that longer stretch of sleep often brings new worries: Will...
Maximize Sleep And Milk Supply: The Ultimate Strategy For Breastfeeding Moms
Wondering about getting more rest as a breastfeeding mom? One major concern that a lot of new mamas have is that they desperately want to breastfeed, but they also need sleep.
How To Reset An Overtired Baby
How to Reset an Overtired Baby (The Baby Settler Way) You know that look—your baby’s eyes are red-rimmed, their cries are louder than usual, and no amount of bouncing, shushing, or nursing seems to help. You can tell they’re exhausted, yet they’re fighting sleep like...
I’m Hillary, the nurse founder of Baby Settler, and a mom of 4!
I’m also a lactation consultant, and I’m here to help you find your groove and navigate the overwhelming days and nights that can steal the joys of babyhood. Amidst all the chaos, I’ll bring you laughs, support, and a whole bunch of “I’ve got this!” moments.
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Wake Windows: What They Are, How to Use Them, and What to Do When Your Baby Stays Up Way Past Them
You’ve probably heard that wake windows are the secret to a baby who sleeps well. Then you look them up and find a dozen charts that don’t agree with each other, a baby who ignores all of them, and the creeping sense that you’re already doing it wrong. Here’s the…
How to Reduce Nighttime Feedings: A Feeding-First Guide to Night Weaning
It’s 2am. You’ve fed, changed, rocked, and laid your baby back down — and forty minutes later, they’re up again. If you’ve ever whispered “will I ever sleep again?” into the dark, you’re in good company. Nighttime feeds are completely normal in the beginning. But they don’t have to last…
Gas or Reflux? How to Tell What’s Really Keeping Your Baby Uncomfortable
It’s 3 a.m., your baby’s squirming, arching, and making that heartbreaking little cry again. You’ve burped, rocked, and tried every “gas relief” trick on TikTok. But you can’t shake the question: “Is this just gas… or could it be reflux?” You’re not alone. Gas and reflux can look almost identical…
How to Protect Your Milk Supply as Baby Sleeps Longer | Baby Settler
The Ultimate Guide to Protecting Your Milk Supply as Your Baby Sleeps Longer Stretches When your baby finally starts sleeping through the night, it can feel like a dream come true. But for breastfeeding moms, that longer stretch of sleep often brings new worries: Will my milk supply drop if…
Returning to Work as a New Mom
Returning to Work as a New Mom: The Ultimate Guide to Pumping at Work Going back to work as a new mom can be tough. You are handling your job and taking care of your baby. Now, you need to find a way to keep breastfeeding or pumping while doing everything else. Don’t worry, many moms feel the same way. With some planning, you can continue breastfeeding or pumping successfully. If you\'re looking for more in-depth advice, be sure to check out our latest podcast episode. We dive deeper into real-world tips and strategies for new moms. In this blog, we’ll go over everything you need to know about pumping at work. This includes picking the right equipment to keeping your milk supply up. 1. Why Pumping at Work Is Important Breastfeeding is a special time for both you and your baby. But when you return to work, it doesn’t have to be the end of your breastfeeding journey. Pumping allows you to express breast milk while you\'re away from your baby. This ensures that you can continue to nourish your little one with breast milk even when you’re at the office. Pumping at work might seem like a lot, but with a good plan and the right gear, it can be easier than you think. By setting yourself up for success ahead of time, you can keep breastfeeding or pumping, and still do your job effectively. 2. Use a Hands-Free Pump (But Not Right Away) One of the most helpful tools for breastfeeding moms today is the hands-free pump. Models like Willow Go and Momcozy let you pump while you do other things—perfect for busy moms who need to multitask at work. However, you should wait until your milk supply is fully established before using a hands free pumping regularly. We recommend waiting until after the first month postpartum. This is because wearable pumps might not remove milk as effectively as traditional…
Partnering with Your Pediatrician on Vaccines: Informed Consent and Open Conversations
Partnering with Your Pediatrician on Vaccines: Informed Consent and Open Conversations Vaccines are one of the most hotly debated topics in modern parenting. New moms often find themselves caught between polarizing opinions, conflicting research, and pediatricians who may or may not be open to discussion. In this episode of the…
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Wake Windows: What They Are, How to Use Them, and What to Do When Your Baby Stays Up Way Past Them
You've probably heard that wake windows are the secret to a baby who sleeps well. Then you look them up and find a dozen charts that don't agree with each other, a baby who ignores all of them, and the creeping sense that you're already doing it wrong. Here's the...
How to Drop Nighttime Feeds the Baby Settler Way | Baby Settler
How to Drop Nighttime Feeds the Baby Settler Way If you’ve ever whispered, “Will I ever sleep again?” at 3 a.m., you’re not alone. Nighttime feeds are completely normal in the beginning—but they don’t have to last forever. With the right foundation, your baby can...
How to Reduce Nighttime Feedings: A Feeding-First Guide to Night Weaning
It's 2am. You've fed, changed, rocked, and laid your baby back down — and forty minutes later, they're up again. If you've ever whispered "will I ever sleep again?" into the dark, you're in good company. Nighttime feeds are completely normal in the beginning. But they...
Gas or Reflux? How to Tell What’s Really Keeping Your Baby Uncomfortable
It’s 3 a.m., your baby’s squirming, arching, and making that heartbreaking little cry again. You’ve burped, rocked, and tried every “gas relief” trick on TikTok. But you can’t shake the question: “Is this just gas… or could it be reflux?” You’re not alone. Gas and...
Postpartum Hormones: Why “Normal Labs” Don’t Always Mean You Feel Normal
Postpartum Hormones: Why “Normal Labs” Don’t Always Mean You Feel Normal Postpartum is often treated like a six-week recovery window. You have the baby. You go to your six-week appointment. You get cleared. And then, in many cases, you are told, “See you at your next...
Going Back to Work After Baby: Childcare, Nanny Prep, and the Emotional Transition No One Talks About
Going Back to Work After Baby: Childcare, Nanny Prep, and the Emotional Transition No One Talks About Going back to work after having a baby is not just a logistical transition. It is an emotional one. You may be excited to return to work. You may love your job. You...
Low Milk Supply, Combo Feeding, and Why Feeding Your Baby Is Not a Pass/Fail Test
Low Milk Supply, Combo Feeding, and Why Feeding Your Baby Is Not a Pass/Fail Test Breastfeeding is often talked about like it should be natural, easy, and instinctive. And sometimes, it is. But for many moms, breastfeeding is hard. Not because they are doing something...
What Actually Happens During Labor? A First-Time Mom Birth Story
What Every Mom Should Know Before Going to the Hospital You can read the books.Take the birth classes.Pack the hospital bag.Save all the TikToks about labor and delivery. And then labor actually starts… and suddenly everything feels far less predictable. In the season...
Why Your Labs Can Be “Normal” but You Still Feel Off After Baby
Why Your Labs Can Be “Normal” but You Still Feel Off After Baby If you’ve been told your labs are “normal” — but you still feel exhausted, anxious, inflamed, or stuck in your body — you’re not imagining things. I hear this from postpartum women all the time: “They...








